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  • Negative Projections

    Negative Projections

    Projection happens when people try to mirror their inner conflicts on to you. It happens all the time. When I say all the time I mean all the time. It’s a way a person defends themselves and attributes the traits that they are secretly unhappy about in themselves onto you. I wasn’t always so cognizant […]

    Aja L.

    May 10, 2021
    Personal Blog
    affirmations, change, evolution, evolve, expectations, growth, law of attraction, life, life visioning, manifest, manifestation, reciprocity, universal law
  • Evolve Everyday

    Evolve Everyday

    When I read this I asked myself what roles has society given me? Have I accepted those roles? If a new reality is available to me why have I accepted this reality? How much of what I think is assigned to me did I actually nominate myself for? Society has tried to dictate what jobs […]

    Aja L.

    February 16, 2020
    Personal Blog
    affirmations, change, evolution, evolve, expectations, growth, manifest, manifestation, reciprocity
  • 5 Transcendent Questions To Ask Yourself

    5 Transcendent Questions To Ask Yourself

    Am I taking responsibility for my actions or am I looking for a way to find peace without self-edification? I’ve noticed recently that people have gravitated toward belief systems that don’t cause them to have to take responsibility for their actions.  Everyone else is the negative energy that they need to keep themselves from.  They […]

    Aja L.

    June 21, 2022
    Personal Blog
    acceptance, advice, affirmations, change, evolution, evolve, expectations, faith, growth, hate, joy, law of attraction, life, life visioning, manifest, manifestation, motivation, optimism, reciprocity, self love, truth, universal law
  • Living in the Midst of an Answered Prayer

    Living in the Midst of an Answered Prayer

    Do you remember when you made an earnest request before the creator asking and hoping for the things you have now?  Do you remember feelings of sorrow and crying out wishing for your prayers to be answered? What happened when your request was granted? What happened when you realize that you were living in the […]

    Aja L.

    January 15, 2022
    Personal Blog
    affirmations, ask, black women, gratitude, law of attraction, life visioning, manifest, manifestation, motivation, outlook, positivity, pray, prayer, seek, universal law, woman, women
  • How to be Happy for Others

    How to be Happy for Others

    Has it ever seemed like everything good was happening for everyone else except you? You are barely able to maintain your job, while others are getting promotions. You may be having family problems, while others seem to have happiness in their families. It can be very disheartening to feel that you must continually give congratulations. […]

    Aja L.

    January 14, 2022
    Personal Blog
    affirmations, black women, change, law of attraction, life, life visioning, manifest, manifestation, motivation, self love, universal law, women
  • Motivated By Hate

    Motivated By Hate

    There is a saying that goes “let your haters be your motivators.” It might sound like a good idea…right? Take the negative and use it as motivation. Although it may sound good, it’s a terrible idea. I have never liked or agreed with this quote. Hatred is not good for your spirit. Jealousy and envy […]

    Aja L.

    August 8, 2021
    Personal Blog
    acceptance, advice, change, faith, growth, hate, joy, life visioning, love, manifestation, motivation, optimism, self love, truth
  • Living In Uncertainty

    Living In Uncertainty

    Let’s be honest.  Most of us enjoy knowing where are headed tomorrow, where our next check is coming from, whether or not we can see family or plan trips.  Unfortunately, that it not a luxury that most of us have right now. Living in uncertainty is hard.  I would say that most of the fights, […]

    Aja L.

    May 8, 2020
    Personal Blog
    coronavirus, covid-19, life visioning, love, meditation, ptayer, spirituality
  • Why I Won’t Be Wearing Weaves For A While

    Why I Won’t Be Wearing Weaves For A While

    Let me start by saying that I have been a long time fan of hair weaves!  I have had every color weave you can think of.  Hair weaves give us the versatility to do so many different looks. Hair weaves can be so much fun. In high school I wore so many weaves people would […]

    Aja L.

    May 7, 2020
    Personal Blog
    beauty, black pride, black women, China, economy, ethics, hair, prejudice, racism, sew in, voting, weave
  • The Stork Missed A Stop

    The Stork Missed A Stop

    Mother’s Day is approaching, and like any other holiday it can be tough. I know there are many people who will be dreading Sunday. I’m sending prayers to the people who have lost mothers, lost children, wanted to become mothers, have bad relationships with their mother’s, and all of the rest of it. It’s easy […]

    Aja L.

    May 4, 2020
    Personal Blog
    acceptance, advice, infertility, love, Mother’s Day, mothers, optimism
  • For Better Or Worse

    For Better Or Worse

    There have been reports that domestic violence and divorce rates have doubled during this COVID-19 Quarantine. Why can’t people get along? Shouldn’t spending time with your significant other be fun? Are we in such a daily routine that we don’t talk to our partners and don’t communicate with them? Is it just the frustration of […]

    Aja L.

    April 24, 2020
    Personal Blog
    abuse, acceptance, advice, change, coronavirus, covid-19, dating, relationships, self love, truth
  • Timelines In Relationships

    Timelines In Relationships

    “When is he going to ask you to be his girlfriend? When are you moving in together? When is he going to propose? When are you going to have kids? When will you have another kid? WOW! You have so many children. Don’t you think you have enough?” Some of us have been asked some […]

    Aja L.

    March 7, 2020
    Personal Blog
    #friendship, acceptance, advice, black men, black women, dating, married, relationships
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