Motivated By Hate

There is a saying that goes “let your haters be your motivators.” It might sound like a good idea…right? Take the negative and use it as motivation. Although it may sound good, it’s a terrible idea. I have never liked or agreed with this quote. Hatred is not good for your spirit. Jealousy and envyContinue reading “Motivated By Hate”

Negative Projections

Projection happens when people try to mirror their inner conflicts on to you. It happens all the time. When I say all the time I mean all the time. It’s a way a person defends themselves and attributes the traits that they are secretly unhappy about in themselves onto you. I wasn’t always so cognizantContinue reading “Negative Projections”

Living In Uncertainty

Let’s be honest.  Most of us enjoy knowing where are headed tomorrow, where our next check is coming from, whether or not we can see family or plan trips.  Unfortunately, that it not a luxury that most of us have right now. Living in uncertainty is hard.  I would say that most of the fights,Continue reading “Living In Uncertainty”