Author: Aja L.
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5 Transcendent Questions To Ask Yourself
Am I taking responsibility for my actions or am I looking for a way to find peace without self-edification? I’ve noticed recently that people have gravitated toward belief systems that don’t cause them to have to take responsibility for their actions. Everyone else is the negative energy that they need to keep themselves from. They […]
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Living in the Midst of an Answered Prayer
Do you remember when you made an earnest request before the creator asking and hoping for the things you have now? Do you remember feelings of sorrow and crying out wishing for your prayers to be answered? What happened when your request was granted? What happened when you realize that you were living in the […]
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How to be Happy for Others
Has it ever seemed like everything good was happening for everyone else except you? You are barely able to maintain your job, while others are getting promotions. You may be having family problems, while others seem to have happiness in their families. It can be very disheartening to feel that you must continually give congratulations. […]
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Motivated By Hate
There is a saying that goes “let your haters be your motivators.” It might sound like a good idea…right? Take the negative and use it as motivation. Although it may sound good, it’s a terrible idea. I have never liked or agreed with this quote. Hatred is not good for your spirit. Jealousy and envy […]
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Negative Projections
Projection happens when people try to mirror their inner conflicts on to you. It happens all the time. When I say all the time I mean all the time. It’s a way a person defends themselves and attributes the traits that they are secretly unhappy about in themselves onto you. I wasn’t always so cognizant […]
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Living In Uncertainty
Let’s be honest. Most of us enjoy knowing where are headed tomorrow, where our next check is coming from, whether or not we can see family or plan trips. Unfortunately, that it not a luxury that most of us have right now. Living in uncertainty is hard. I would say that most of the fights, […]
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Why I Won’t Be Wearing Weaves For A While
Let me start by saying that I have been a long time fan of hair weaves! I have had every color weave you can think of. Hair weaves give us the versatility to do so many different looks. Hair weaves can be so much fun. In high school I wore so many weaves people would […]
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The Stork Missed A Stop
Mother’s Day is approaching, and like any other holiday it can be tough. I know there are many people who will be dreading Sunday. I’m sending prayers to the people who have lost mothers, lost children, wanted to become mothers, have bad relationships with their mother’s, and all of the rest of it. It’s easy […]
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For Better Or Worse
There have been reports that domestic violence and divorce rates have doubled during this COVID-19 Quarantine. Why can’t people get along? Shouldn’t spending time with your significant other be fun? Are we in such a daily routine that we don’t talk to our partners and don’t communicate with them? Is it just the frustration of […]
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Timelines In Relationships
“When is he going to ask you to be his girlfriend? When are you moving in together? When is he going to propose? When are you going to have kids? When will you have another kid? WOW! You have so many children. Don’t you think you have enough?” Some of us have been asked some […]
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