Aja L.

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5 Transcendent Questions To Ask Yourself

Am I taking responsibility for my actions or am I looking for a way to find peace without self-edification? I’ve noticed recently that people have gravitated toward belief systems that don’t cause them to have to take responsibility for their actions.  Everyone else is the negative energy that they need to keep themselves from.  They […]

Living in the Midst of an Answered Prayer

Do you remember when you made an earnest request before the creator asking and hoping for the things you have now?  Do you remember feelings of sorrow and crying out wishing for your prayers to be answered? What happened when your request was granted? What happened when you realize that you were living in the […]

How to be Happy for Others

Has it ever seemed like everything good was happening for everyone else except you? You are barely able to maintain your job, while others are getting promotions. You may be having family problems, while others seem to have happiness in their families. It can be very disheartening to feel that you must continually give congratulations. […]

Motivated By Hate

There is a saying that goes “let your haters be your motivators.” It might sound like a good idea…right? Take the negative and use it as motivation. Although it may sound good, it’s a terrible idea. I have never liked or agreed with this quote. Hatred is not good for your spirit. Jealousy and envy […]

Negative Projections

Projection happens when people try to mirror their inner conflicts on to you. It happens all the time. When I say all the time I mean all the time. It’s a way a person defends themselves and attributes the traits that they are secretly unhappy about in themselves onto you. I wasn’t always so cognizant […]

Living In Uncertainty

Let’s be honest.  Most of us enjoy knowing where are headed tomorrow, where our next check is coming from, whether or not we can see family or plan trips.  Unfortunately, that it not a luxury that most of us have right now. Living in uncertainty is hard.  I would say that most of the fights, […]


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